Hello dearly beloved,
My name is Colisnicencu Daniel and this is my website.
As the name might suggest this website is dedicated to properly growing up, but worry not, this is not a blog for children (the subjects are very much mature). It has become my understanding that many people get big, but they don’t grow. In our society children are raised by bigger children and become big babies themselves.
I remember, when I was a child, looking at the adults around me and being unable to find a single person who has accomplished anything they considered to be meaningful in their lives. It occurred to me that their biggest feat was having children (and before that marriage). Young people made it a purpose of their lives to find a spouse and, once they found him or her, they got married.
And then they no longer had a purpose so they made a child and lived their lives for the sake of that child’s well-being. These decisions were not theirs. The motivation for these decisions was simply that this is the path everybody else takes. I couldn’t help but notice how unhappy they were, how much they longed for their wasted past.
There are people whose genuine wish, goal and purpose in life is to build a family and raise their children. I have noticed however that most of the adults around me used their families as an excuse not to chase their actual dreams. They claimed to have been forced to give up their ambitions by the hardships of family life.
I realized at a rather young age that if each and every parent sacrificed their dreams and ambitions for the sake of their children then no child of man would ever achieve his dreams. It had occurred to me that, if I followed my parents’ example, I would be throwing myself in the misery of regret and condemning my own children to a similar path.
In my quest to change my life situation I realized that such a feat may only be achieved by changing oneself. You cannot flip a switch and change your life, but you can change yourself and your life will change accordingly.
In order to change myself I first had to understand myself. So I started analyzing how I thought, how I felt, how I spoke, how I walked, how I dressed, how I reacted to others, how I lived my days.
The more I understood myself the more I realized I needed to change and to this day I am still on the path of growth. I have made it my purpose in life to continuously grow and develop until the day I die.
It is my belief that anything you could possibly desire out of life you can obtain if you dedicate yourself to growing up little by little, day by day.
It is obvious that one can become a millionaire if he dedicates the 40+ years of his adult life towards building wealth!
It is obvious to me that one can become a champion at anything if he dedicates enough time and energy to said endeavor!
It is blatantly obvious that in the 40+ years of our adult lives we can achieve any feat that any person has ever achieved before (for the simple reason that another person has achieved that same feat in the 40+ years of his/her adult life and we, ourselves are people)!
We are only limited by our imagination and our willingness to grow.
This blog is designed to help you understand the inner workings of your mind and to get you started on your journey.
I shall be posting a new article on the Wednesday of every week, from this moment on. The main topic will be personal development, though I may veer off course.
I wish you good luck on your journey, may fortune be on your side. Just remember that good luck and fortune are always on the side of those who grow through life.
And those who don’t are crushed by fear.
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